The Teacup

There was a couple who used to go England to shop in a beautiful antique store. This trip was to celebrate their 25th wedding anniversary. They both liked antiques and pottery, and especially tea cups.
Spotting an exceptional cup, they asked, "May we see that? We've never seen a cup quite so beautiful."
As the lady handed it to them, suddenly the tea cup spoke, "You don't understand," it said. "I have not always been a tea cup. There was a time when I was just a lump of red clay. My master took me and rolled me, pounded and patted me over and over, and I yelled out, 'Don't do that. I don't like it! Let me alone,' but he only smiled, and gently said, 'Not yet!'
Then... WHAM! I was placed on a spinning wheel and suddenly I was spun around and around and around. 'Stop it! I'm getting so dizzy! I'm going to be sick!' I screamed. But the master only nodded and quietly said, 'Not yet.' He spun me and poked and prodded and bent me out of shape to suit himself and then... then he put me in the oven.
I never felt such heat. I yelled and knocked and pounded at the door. 'Help! Get me out of here!' I could see him through the opening and I could read his lips as he shook His head from side to side, 'Not yet.' "When I thought I couldn't bear it another minute, the door opened. He carefully took me out and put me on the shelf, and I began to cool.
Oh, that felt so good! Ah, this is much better, I thought. "But, after I cooled, he picked me up and he brushed and painted me all over. The fumes were horrible. I thought I would gag. 'Oh, please, stop it, stop it!!' I cried. He only shook his head and said, 'Not yet!'
Then suddenly he put me back in to the oven. Only it was not like the first one. This was twice as hot and I just knew I would suffocate. I begged. I pleaded. I screamed. I cried. I was convinced I would never make it. I was ready to give up. Just then the door opened and he took me out and again placed me on the shelf, where I cooled and waited... and waited... wondering, "What's he going to do to me next? !"
An hour later he handed me a mirror and said, 'Look at yourself.' And I did.
"I said, 'That's not me. That couldn't be me. It's beautiful. I'm beautiful!'
Quietly he spoke: 'I want you to remember back to the beginning,' he said, 'I know it hurt to be rolled and pounded and patted but, had I just left you alone, you'd have dried up. I know it made you dizzy to spin around on the wheel but, if I had stopped, you would have crumbled. I know it hurt, and it was hot and disagreeable in the oven but, if I hadn't put you there, you would have cracked. I know the fumes were bad when I brushed and painted you all over but, if I hadn't done that, you never would have hardened. You would not have had any color in your life. If I hadn't put you back in that second oven, you wouldn't have survived for long because the hardness would not have held. Now you are a finished product. Now you are what I had in mind when I first began with you.'"


The moral of this story is this: God knows what He is doing with each of us. He is the Potter, and we are His clay. He will mold us and make us, and expose us to just enough pressures - of just the right kinds - so that we may be made into a flawless piece of work to fulfill His good, pleasing and perfect will


So... when life seems hard, and you are being pounded and patted and pushed almost beyond endurance; when your world seems to be spinning out of control; when you feel like you are in a fiery furnace of trials; when life seems to "stink", try this...brew a cup of your favorite tea in your nicest tea cup, sit down, and think of this story. Then have a talk with the Potter.

Isaiah 64:8 Yet, O LORD, you are our Father. We are the clay, you are the potter; we are all the work of your hand.

He Loves Me

~He Loves Me This I Know~



I hold a daisy in my hand
Its beauty pure and rare.
I ask myself does he care?
How do I know?

I pull the petals off one by one.
He loves me, he loves me not.
On and on I pull the petals to know
Does he love me or does he love me not.

Finally, I get to the last petal left
And know that this time
He loves me and he is mine.
I smile and joy in my heart is felt.

Does this little game tell it right?
Is that all there is to know
His love to me he will show?
A better way is how I feel when he holds me tight.

Love is a special feeling
That into the heart comes stealing
When he comes into view
And smiles before kissing you.

Love is complete when returned
By acts sweet and genuine
Joining your heart with mine,
Committed to a life of sharing.

The Affair Story

The 1st Affair

A married man was having an affair
with his secretary.
One day they went to her place
and made love all afternoon.
Exhausted, they fell asleep
and woke up at 8 PM.
The man hurriedly dressed
and told his lover to take his shoes
outside and rub them in the grass and dirt.
He put on his shoes and drove home.
'Where have you been?' his wife demanded.
'I can't lie to you,' he replied,
'I'm having an affair with my secretary.
We had sex all afternoon.'
She looked down at his shoes and said:
'You lying bastard!
You've been playing golf!'

The 2nd Affair

A middle-aged couple had two beautiful daughters
but always talked about having a son.
They decided to try one last time
for the son they always wanted.
The wife got pregnant
and delivered a healthy baby boy.
The joyful father rushed to the nursery
to see his new son.
He was horrified at the ugliest child
he had ever seen.
He told his wife: 'There's no way I can
be the father of this baby.
Look at the two beautiful daughters I fathered!
Have you been fooling around behind my back?'
The wife smiled sweetly and replied:
'Not this time!'

The 3rd Affair

A mortician was working late one night.
He examined the body of Mr. Schwartz,
about to be cremated,
and made a startling discovery.
Schwartz had the largest private part
he had ever seen!
'I'm sorry Mr. Schwartz,' the mortician
commented, 'I can't allow you to be cre mated
with such an impressive private part.
It must be saved for posterity.'
So, he removed it,
stuffed it into his briefcase,
and took it home
'I have something to show
you won't believe,' he said to his wife,
opening his briefcase.
'My God!' the wife exclaimed,
'Schwartz is dead!'

The 4th Affair

A woman was in bed with her lover
when she heard her husband
opening the front door.
'Hurry,' she said, 'stand in the corner.'
She rubbed baby oil all over him,
then dusted him with talcum powder.
'Don't move until I tell you,'
she said, 'pretend you're a statue.'
'What's this?' the husband inquired
as he entered the room.
'Oh it's a statue,' she replied,
'the Smiths bought one and I liked it
so I got one for us, too.'
No more was said,
not even when they went to bed.
Around 2 AM the husband got up,
went to the kitchen and returned
with a sandwich and a beer.
'Here,' he said to the statue, have this.
I stood like that for two days at the Smiths
and nobody offered me a damned thing.'

The 5th Affair

A man walked into a cafe,
went to the bar and ordered a beer.
'Certainly, Sir, that'll be one cent.'
'One Cent?' the man exclaimed.
He glanced at the menu and asked:
'How much for a nice juicy steak
and a bottle of w ine?'
'A nickel,' the barman replied.
'A nickel?' exclaimed the man.
'Where's the guy who owns this place?'
The bartender replied:
'Upstairs, with my wife.'
The man asked: 'What's he doing upstairs
with your wife?'
The bartender replied:
'The same thing I'm doing
to his business down here.'

The 6th Affair

Jake was dying. His wife sat at the bedside.
He looked up and said weakly:
'I have something I must confess.'
'There's no need to, 'his wife replied.
'No,' he insisted,
'I want to die in peace.
I slept with your sister, your best friend,
her best friend, and your mother!'
'I know,' she replied,
'now just rest and let the poison work.'

I Will

I have searched my heart for the answers,

My soul begs for the truth to be revealed.

I cannot see beyond the pain,

My heart may never be healed.

The abruptness of your departure,

Leaving me to wonder why.

Going on day after day alone,

Will this hurt and sorrow ever die?

I have thought of you each and everyday,

Allowing the memories to stay alive.

But memories no longer sustain me,

I need more in which to survive.

I want back what we had before,

Ours was the truest romance.

I need your love to make me whole,

once more,Let's give that love one more chance.

Come to me, oh my love,

My arms to you open wide.

Take me in yours once again,

Let me feel your love deep inside.

I will always love you, darling,

Here in my heart you will live.

You are the one who can unlock the door,

To the heart that you hold captive.

Missing You

Can't sleep, my mind won't still...

I need you beside me, soothing my chill.

My heart is so heavy, i'm missing you so...

I need you beside me, and never let go.

I feel you around me, sometimes i smell you...

I hear you telling me, " Don't be so blue..."

You give me your strength, when i'm missing you so...

Hold on to my hand, and never let go.

Just once more, do i wish we could touch..
For I Love You, My Darling, I Love You so much.

I miss you, i'm missing you sooo...

Come hold me, come love me, and never let go.

WHY MEN LIE

One day, while a woodcutter was cutting a branch of a tree above river, his axe fell into the river.When he cried out, the Lord appeared and asked, 'Why are you crying?' The woodcutter replied that his axe has fallen into water,and he needed the axe to make his living.The Lord went down in the water and reappeared with a golden axe. 'Is this your axe?' the Lord asked.The woodcutter replied, 'No.'

The Lord again went down and came up with a silver axe.'Is this your axe?'the Lord asked. Again, the woodcutter replied, 'No.'The Lord went down again and came up with an iron axe.'Is this your axe?'the Lord asked.'Yes', he replied.The Lord was pleased with the man's honesty and gave him allthree axes to keep, and the woodcutter went home happy.
Some time later the woodcutter was walking with his wife along the riverbank, and his wife fell into the river.When he cried out, the Lord again appeared and asked him, 'Why are you crying?' 'Oh Lord, my wife has fallen into the water!'The Lord went down into the water and came up with Jennifer Lopez.'Is this your wife?' the Lord asked. 'Yes,' cried the woodcutter.The Lord was furious. 'You lied! That is an untruth!'The woodcutter fell to his knees and cried, 'Oh, forgive me, Lord. It isa misunderstanding. You see, if I had said 'no' to Jennifer Lopez, You would have come up with Catherine Zeta-Jones. Then if I also said 'no' to her, you would have come up with my wife. Had I then said 'yes,' you would have given me all three. Lord, I am a poor man, and am not able to take care of all three wives, and I love my wife such that I don't want her to shareme with anyone, so THAT'S why I said yes to Jennifer Lopez.'
The moral of this story is: Whenever a man lies, it is for a good and honourable reason, and for the benefit of others.. MOSTLY his wife!

Share Your Feelings

Good or bad, feelings need expression;

they must be recognized and given

freedom to reveal themselves.

It isn't wise to hide behind a smile

when your heart is breaking;

that is not being true to how

you feel inside.

By letting out your feelings,

your pain is released,

and you are able to go on -

to reconstruct your life and

think of other things

that will make you happy again.

Put away the myth that says

you must be strong enough to face

the whole world with a smile and

a brave attitude all of the time.

You have your feelings that say otherwise,

so admit that they are there.

Use their healing power

to put the past behind you,

and realize that those expressive

stirrings in your heart

are very much a part of you.

Use them to get better,

to find peace within,

to be true to yourself.

Classic Deadlock

Boss said to secretary: For a week we will go abroad,so make arrangement.

Secretary make call to Husband: For a week my boss andI will be going abroad, you look after yourself.

Husband make call to secret lover: My wife is goingabroad for a week, so lets spend the week together.

Secret lover make call to small boy whom she is givingprivate tution: I have work for a week, so you neednot come for class.

Small boy make call to his grandfather: Grandpa, for aweek I don't have class 'coz my teacher is busy. Letsspend the week together.

Grandpa make call to his secretary: This week I amspending my time with my grandson. We cannot attendthat meeting.

Secretary make call to her husband: This week my bosshas some work, we cancelled our trip.

Husband make call to secret lover: We cannot spendthis week together, my wife has cancelled her trip.

Secret lover make call to small boy whom she is givingprivate tution: This week we will have class as usual.

Small boy make call to his grandfather: Grandpa, myteacher said this week I have to attend class. Sorry Ican't give you company.

Grandpa make call to his secretary: Don't worry thisweek we will attend that meeting, so make arrangement .

Some very good and Very bad things

The most destructive habit....... ......... ......Worry

The greatest Joy......... ......... ......... ....Giving

The greatest loss........ ........Loss of self-respect

The most satisfying work........ .......Helping others

The ugliest personality trait....... ......Selfishness

The most endangered species..... ....Dedicated leaders

Our greatest natural resource.... ......... ..Our youth

The greatest "shot in the arm"........ ..Encouragement

The greatest problem to overcome.... ......... ....Fear

The most effective sleeping pill........ Peace of mind

The most crippling failure disease..... .......Excuses

The most powerful force in life........ ......... .Love

The most dangerous pariah...... ......... ...A gossiper

The world's most incredible computer.... ....The brain

The worst thing to be without..... ......... ..... Hope

The deadliest weapon...... ......... ........The tongue

The two most power-filled words....... ........" I Can"

The greatest asset....... ......... ......... .....Faith

The most worthless emotion..... ......... ....Self- pity

The most beautiful attire...... ......... .......Smile!

The most prized possession.. ......... .....Integrity

The most powerful channel of communication. . ....Prayer

The most contagious spirit...... ......... ..Enthusiasm

The most important thing in life........ ......... ..GOD

Worth The Time

Ironically, when we get busy, the first thing that tends to get cut back is our meditation practice. We have less time and a lot on our plates, so it makes sense that this happens, but in the end it doesn't really help us. Most of us know from experience that we function much better when we give ourselves time each day to sit in silence. And the more we have to do, the more we need that solitary, quiet time for the day ahead. As a result, while it may sound counterintuitive, it is during busy times that we most need to spend more time in meditation rather than less. By being quiet and listening to the universe, we will be given what we need to get through our day.
Expanding our morning meditation by just 10 minutes can make a big difference, as can the addition of short meditations into our daily schedule. The truth is, no matter how busy we are, unless we are in the midst of a crisis we always have five or 10 minutes to spare. The key is convincing ourselves that spending that time in meditation is the most fruitful choice. We could be getting our dishes done or heading into work earlier instead, so it’s important that we come to value the importance of meditation in the context of all the other things competing for attention in our lives. All we have to do to discover whether it works to meditate more when we are busy is to try it.

We can start by creating more time in the morning, either by getting up earlier or by preparing breakfast the night before and using the extra time for meditation. We can also add short meditation breaks into our schedule, from five minutes before or after lunch to a meditation at night before we go to sleep. When we come from a place of centered calm, we are more effective in handling our busy schedules and more able to keep it all in perspective. If more time in meditation means less time feeling anxious, panicky, and overwhelmed, then it’s certainly worth the extra time.

Some lessons

Lesson 1:

A man is getting into the shower just as his wife is finishing up her shower, when the doorbell rings.The wife quickly wraps herself in a towel and runs downstairs. When she opens the door, there stands Bob, the next-door neighbor.Before she says a word, Bob says, "I'll give you $800 to drop that towel, "After thinking for a moment, the woman drops her towel and stands naked in front of Bob. After a few seconds, Bob hands her $800 and leaves.The woman wraps back up in the towel and goes back upstairs. When she gets to the bathroom, her husband asks, "Who was that?""It was Bob the next door neighbor," she replies."Great," the husband says, "did he say anything about the $800 he owes me?"

Moral of the story

If you share critical information pertaining to credit and risk with your shareholders in time, you may be in a position to prevent avoidable exposure.

Lesson 2:

A priest offered a Nun a lift. She got in and crossed her legs, forcing her gown to reveal a leg. The priest nearly had an accident. After controlling the car, he stealthily slid his hand up her leg.The nun said, "Father, remember Psalm 129?"The priest removed his hand. But, changing gears, he let his hand slide up her leg again.The nun once again said, "Father, remember Psalm 129?"The priest apologized "Sorry sister but the flesh is weak."Arriving at the convent, the nun sighed heavily and went on her way.On his arrival at the church, the priest rushed to look up Psalm 129 It said, "Go forth and seek, further up, you will find glory."

Moral of the story

If you are not well informed in your job, you might miss a great opportunity.

Lesson 3:

A sales rep, an administration clerk, and the manager are walking to lunch when they find an antique oil lamp. They rub it and a Genie comes out.The Genie says, "I'll give each of you just one wish.""Me first! Me first!" says the admin clerk. "I want to be in the Bahamas , driving a speedboat, without a care in the world."Puff! She's gone."Me next! Me next!" says the sales rep. "I want to be in Hawaii , relaxing on the beach with my personal masseuse, an endless supply of Pina Coladas and the love of my life."Puff! He's gone."OK, you're up," the Genie says to the manager.The manager says, "I want those two back in the office after lunch."

Moral of the story

Always let your boss have the first say.

Lesson 4:

An eagle was sitting on a tree resting, doing nothing. A small rabbit saw the eagle and asked him, "Can I also sit like you and do nothing?"The eagle answered: "Sure, why not."So, the rabbit sat on the ground below the eagle and rested. All of a sudden, a fox appeared, jumped on the rabbit and ate it.

Moral of the story

To be sitting and doing nothing, you must be sitting very, very high up.

Lesson 5:

A turkey was chatting with a bull. "I would love to be able to get to the top of that tree," sighed the turkey, "but I haven't got the energy.""Well, why don't you nibble on some of my droppings?" replied the bull.They're packed with nutrients."The turkey pecked at a lump of dung, and found it actually gave him enough strength to reach the lowest branch of the tree.The next day, after eating some more dung, he reached the second branch. Finally after a fourth night, the turkey was proudly perched at the top of the tree. He was promptly spotted by a farmer, who shot him out of the tree.

Moral of the story

BullShit might get you to the top, but it won't keep you there.

Lesson 6:

A little bird was flying south for the Winter. It was so cold the bird froze and fell to the ground into a large field. While he was lying there, a cow came by and dropped some dung on him. As the frozen bird lay there in the pile of cow dung, he began to realize how warm he was.The dung was actually thawing him out! He lay there all warm and happy, and soon began to sing for joy.A passing cat heard the bird singing and came to investigate.Following the sound, the cat discovered the bird under the pile of cow dung, and promptly dug him out and ate him.

Moral of these stories:

(1) Not everyone who shits on you is your enemy.
(2) Not everyone who gets you out of shit is your friend.(3) And when you're in deep shit, it's best to keep your mouth
shut!

CHEVRON OIL COMPANY LIMITED UNITED KINGDOM JOB OPPORTUNITIES

Today when I opened my inbox I saw a mail and I am shocked to see that.....

have a look.........



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For further information's and sending of resumes, you can contact the director in charge with the phone number or an email as seen below:
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Since they are offering so huge package,I guess it is a scam,so people be aware of this
When I google about this I found the simmilar results.

Teenpatti in Orkut

Since I love orkut its my favorite time pass.

I love net surfing so much.



now a days there were few things that are added to orkut recently.
some of the applications are enjoyed by the orkut users,one of them is teenpati

Even I love that game.
Most of the orkut user love to play that game with friends and others instead of chatting.

you can also chatt with the players while playing.
Also if you want to practice and get some virtual cash to practice, you can add bots and practice....

jus try it its fun....

My search funds

When I m looking to my mails today,I found a mail regarding this"mysearchfunds.com"
have a look............

"I have started using a great web search service that allows me to earn money from searching in my normal way. It`s quick and free to set up, keeps you up to date on your earnings and pays out monthly.http://www.mysearchfunds.co.uk/apply001.asp?Friend=50037 "

I joined the program I hope its not fake.if this is true and not a scam, then it will be fun.Since I used to do googling so much and if I earne through this,then what's better than this.

amazing one,but still I have a question,Why one pay for this?

since all results are from google so what's there benefit.Why they are paying for such thing.!!!!

When I m looking into that site,I found it more interesting because they also pay for the refrals earnings

"Recommend My Search Funds to your friends and you can earn even more. When they sign up with us you get 10% of all the revenue we earn from their searches and even more if they pass it on!"

its a great idea, but please suggest me whether I should go for this or its just a scam.

What Science Cannot Explain

Today I was reading a article in The Times of India,"What Science Cannot Explain"

Stories of scores breakthroughs made in science and technology cannot take away from the fact that there exist some phenomenon that we still can't explain.

some of them are listed here.....

Ghosts, Apparitions, and Spirits
Ghosts have long since solidified a place in history and everyday life. You turn on the TV and shows center on spirits and 'ghost whisperers.' There are people who believe they can contact the dead and have made a living off of displaying this 'gift.' Since science cannot give concrete proof that spirits of the dead do not exist – some are at a complete loss – unwilling to at least give the thought a chance.

Near-Death Experiences
There are many people who claim to have neared death and experienced a variety of mystical outcomes as a result. Some people describe traveling into a tunnel filled with light; being able to establish contact with loved ones in the spirit world; and gain a sense of peace before coming back to life – remembering the details of this incident often described as a 'near-death' experience.

Body and Mind…
The mind is so complicated that medical science has only explored the tip of the iceberg. The mind influences the body, but we do not exactly know how. For example, the body possesses the ability to heal itself that far surpasses drugs and other medical approaches. Let's take the placebo effect for instance – some people can bring about a sense of relief and lack of pain associated with medical symptom just by believing that a certain cure is effective. Now, that is power you just don’t understand that quickly.

Intuition
Whether you refer to it as a 'gut feeling' or a 'sixth sense' or that 'weird feeling' - intuition is an experience that many will say they have undergone. While tons of gut feeling have turned out wrong – what about the ones that actually were right? Psychologists have already mentioned that people have the ability to subconsciously gather information about the surrounding world that can produce a 'sense' of 'something'.

UFOs
Some argue that we cannot exactly prove why we are here; therefore how can we disprove that other living things and creatures exist in the world (or Solar System for that matter). With black holes and depths of space we have no clue about – who's to say that some other planet just like ours thrives. Unidentified Flying Objects have been around since the start of time, as ancient art reveals. In the sky, a lot of things have been noted. Sometimes, it is a simple aircraft or a meteor – other times – the pilots in the sky see something they cannot explain as well. Some believe in aliens and spacecraft outside of human control, and as hard as the government tries to disprove objects in the air that no one really knows what it is – science cannot completely make the statement that it is out of the realm of possibility. This is probably the same thing that aliens are saying about us – 'how did they get here?'

Déjà vu
Maybe the movie with Denzel Washington was a bit far-fetched – but I've had experiences of déjà vu myself, where I know exactly what is going to happen before it does because I feel like it has already happened before. I believe almost everyone has had this feeling in some form or another. It's more complicated that just saying you feel like you’ve met someone before or visited a place before. Actual events seem to unfold right before your very eyes with a sense of unnerving familiarity.
Déjà vu is the French phrase for 'already seen' and some believe that it possesses a link to psychic experiences or showcases pieces of a previous life you may have lived. Right in the same boat as intuition, déjà vu is viewed as a mystery that perhaps human psychology might be able to unlock. However, the cause and background on this phenomenon could remain a mystery and isn't something science can lend a hand with.

Psychic Powers and ESP
The topic of psychic powers has drummed up controversy for many years now, and you can lump ESP (extra sensory perception) right in the same boat. When it comes to unexplained phenomenon, you cannot deny that certain things are proclaimed at the oddest and most correct times. A lot of people believe that intuition is also a form of psychic power, as it is just another way of tapping into some special portal to the future. Researchers have showed an interest in people with these 'special powers' and have conducted tests.

Bigfoot and Other "Mythical" Creatures
Many of years have passed and the legend of the large, hairy beasts that resemble men (usually called Bigfoot) still make the rounds in folklore, supposed sightings, and news headlines. Eyewitness accounts have been reported in North America and all over the world, as people swear they have captured the beast on film during hiking trips and family camping outings.
While the legend is still active, it is pretty curious that not one single body has been found. A hunter has never accidentally killed a Bigfoot. They haven't been hit by a car like deer crossing the road and the lifespan must be amazing because – natural causes has never taken the life of a Bigfoot.

Is science ever gonna find out about them or they will remain as a mystery.
Is we dont have suffiecient scintific knowledge to find out about them.
Are they remain a mystery for us.
How long it will take to know about them.???????????????

these were the certain quetions that makes me think when I read that article about them.

are we insufficient to find out about them.!!!
Is our scientist incapable to finding this.

Rajasthan village with just 12 girls

DEVDA VILLAGE (JAISALMER): A wedding procession hardly makes headlines but in Devda, it certainly will. Ten years ago, a baraat arrived at the doors of a Rajput family in this sleepy village, the first time in 105 years that a Rajput kanya was getting married in Devda. A decade after that grand celebration, the villagers are still waiting to give away a daughter's hand in marriage. The Rajputs in the village, with a population of about 2,000, take pride in claiming that they form the majority here. But there are only 12 girls in the 70-odd Rajput houses and just one of them above the age of 10 and just one family with more than one daughter in the house - the consequence of years of the abominable practice of female infanticide. And with the arrival of technology in shape of sonography, even girl foetuses haven't been spared. It was Inder Singh Bhati and his wife who initiated a change 27 years ago, when they literally gifted life to their newborn baby-girl. While everybody else around them killed their daughters, the couple decided to let their child live, probably because they had already lost three sons before her birth. "I don't remember what we were thinking then but it was my wife who took this decision. I only supported her," admits Inder Singh. What he remembers is how difficult it was. "We were often taunted, people talked behind our backs and initially, my daughter, Jawan Kaur, was also frowned upon. Gradually, she was accepted," he says. And, when his children got married, he made it a point to tell them not to kill their daughters, Inder Singh says. "Things have changed and improved a bit. We do have girls around now," Inder Singh says, while admitting that baby girls are killed even today in the village. " Kya karein? A good match for a girl means lots of money for her dowry. As farmers from a drought-hit region, not all can afford it." It was six years after the birth of Jawan Kaur that another girl child, her younger sister, survived the practice. That girl, Sugandh Kaur, has grown up to be 21 and it's her wedding that villagers are now looking forward to. "I never liked going to the village after didi's wedding. There were no girls around and I always felt lonely," says Sugandh, who now lives in Jaisalmer with her family. She knows she's a lucky one. "My mother has often told me about how girls are killed. I am lucky my father is an educated man, who had moved to the city much before my birth," she says. Sugandh is engaged and is proud that her baraat would be warmly welcomed in Devda next year. Back in Devda, Chandra Kaur, 16, is the only girl who is above 10 years. "It's a relief to see the Rajput families finally respecting their girl children. No doubt they are few in number even today but at least, they are there. As children, we had never seen a girl child in any of the Rajput houses, forget baraats coming to their houses," says Chandraprakash Ojha, a schoolteacher from the village. The example set by Inder Singh Bhati and his wife appears to have caught on. Another woman, also named Sugandh Kaur, 52, has three daughters and two sons. Her elder son has two daughters aged seven and five - Evan Kaur and Pavan Kaur; the younger son has a one-month-old baby girl, Bhavan Kaur, who is the youngest girl in the village. "I believe that girls are born to their own fate. We can't kill them just because we don't have money. Their fate will find a way for their bright future. I don't want my daughters-in-law to sin the way I did," says Sugandh, admitting that she had killed one of her daughters years ago. Her decision to let her other daughters live has earned her special respect from the villagers, especially the non-Rajput communities. "Initially, eyebrows were raised but now everyone praises us. I have to admit it was my mother's decision," says Sangh Singh, the elder son, adding that they are even ready to welcome more girls in the family.

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